Parent check-in: My child wants to go to the movies for the first time – what do I have to consider?

Going to the movies for the first time is a big event for many children. Everything is new: the huge screen, the dark auditorium, lots of people and a movie that can’t simply be stopped. This is exciting for some children, but perhaps too much for others. With good preparation, going to the movies can still be a great experience.

At what age does cinema make sense?

Many children are ready for their first trip to the movies at around 5 or 6 years old. However, the age is less important than the maturity of your child. Can they sit still for a while? Can they cope well with tension? Are they not afraid of the dark or loud noises? Some children are not ready until later, and that’s perfectly fine.

What role does the age rating play?

In Germany, the Voluntary Self-Regulation of the Film Industry (FSK) assigns age ratings for movies. These indicate the age from which a movie is approved, but are not educational recommendations. A movie “from 6” can still be too exciting or too sad for sensitive children. You should therefore read a brief summary of the content in advance and trust your instincts.

What can be difficult for children?

Especially the first time, children can be overwhelmed by the impressions:

• The sound is often very loud
• The movie theater is dark and unfamiliar
• Exciting scenes look more intense on the big screen
• Long movies are exhausting
• Ads and trailers before the movie are often not age-appropriate

If your child gets restless or wants to leave the movie theater, this is completely normal. You are welcome to meet this need of your child.

What offers help you get started?

Many cinemas offer special children’s or family screenings. Some even have special offers for the first movie experience. These screenings are usually earlier in the day, shorter, quieter, with dimmed lights and adapted advertising. Children are often allowed to move around or even say something. This takes the pressure off and makes it easier to get started.

How can parents provide good support?

Prepare your child: Explain how movies work, that it gets dark and that the movie cannot be paused. It is also important to send a clear message: we can leave at any time if it gets too much. If necessary, sit at the edge of the auditorium.

After the movie, talk about what your child liked and what might have been scary. This will help you to classify the experience and lay a good foundation for the next visit to the cinema.

The first visit to the movie theater doesn’t have to be perfect. The important thing is that your child feels taken seriously and well accompanied.