Whether in books, series, films or audio stories – children learn role models through the media. This is because children identify with characters that they like. Classic images are often conveyed, such as those of strong heroes and beautiful princesses. Children are guided by these role models in order to develop their own personality.
From primary school age at the latest, gender becomes increasingly important for children’s identity. In many children’s films and series, girls and boys are still portrayed differently. Studies such as the MaLisa Progress Study (2021) show: Male characters continue to be more visible than female characters in children’s television. This is particularly clear in the case of animal, fantasy, robot and machine characters – they are still predominantly portrayed as male. At the same time, there are positive developments: The proportion of female characters in German children’s television has increased and stood at 44 percent in 2020. However, when the media tell similar stories over and over again – the brave boy saves everyone, the girl is mainly beautiful or caring – this can restrict children.
Trans and non-binary people have only rarely appeared in children’s films and series to date. For the most part, children’s media continue to tell stories about girls and boys within a binary gender role model. International studies such as the See Jane 2024 study show that LGBTQIA+ characters make up only a very small proportion of popular children’s television, at one to two percent; non-binary characters are almost invisible. Yet diverse characters can help children to understand that there are different ways of living gender, family and identity.
Many media offerings also remain one-sided when it comes to the portrayal of bodies and roles. Female characters are more often shown as young, slim, beautiful or caring. Male characters appear muscular, strong and athletic and more often experience adventures or explain the world. In family stories, women are still more likely to be shown bringing up children and doing housework, while men appear more often in professional or public roles. If children and young people repeatedly see one-sided images of beauty and bodies, this can make them feel insecure – especially if they perceive these images as “normal” and compare themselves to them. Studies show: This can increase dissatisfaction with their own bodies.
Occupations help children to imagine their own future. They are also guided by characters from books, series, films or audio stories. In many stories, however, professions are still stereotypically distributed: Women are more likely to look after children, family or care. Men solve problems, experience adventures or act as experts.
This can give the impression: Some professions are more suited to girls, others to boys. But the world of work today is much more colorful. A mother can be an engineer, doctor or scientist; a father can be an educator, carer or househusband. Such examples are important because career aspirations are often influenced by role models from an early age. In addition, technology and digitalization are constantly giving rise to new professions that have hardly featured in children’s books and series to date. If a boy still wants to be a firefighter or a girl a ballerina, that is of course perfectly fine.
In many picture books, families consist of a woman, a man and one or two children. Fathers often only appear as a secondary character. However, the traditional mother-father-child model, in which the mother looks after the children and the father goes to work, is only one of many family types today. Many children have several caregivers who look after them. These include, for example, the new partners of the (separated) parents. Rainbow families with queer parents are also rarely depicted in children’s media. And where are the adults who are not in a relationship but still like to look after their friends’ or family members’ children?
If you notice any questionable gender portrayals, feel free to address them: Who gets to be strong in the story? Who cares? Who decides? In this way, children learn to question role models.
Children need different role models. A diverse range of media shows them different ways in which people can live, feel and act. Stories that break down typical role models encourage children to accept themselves and to be open, tolerant and respectful towards others. We have put together some media tips for you that show diverse gender roles and different family forms:
Diverse families
I am me: self-image and gender identity
Out of the gender pigeonhole
Strong friendships and diverse role models
You can find more media recommendations in this article and, for example, at Regenbogenfamilien München and PINKSTINKS. If you would like to know more about gender in children’s media, we recommend this brochure for parents on dealing with gender roles.
