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Dealing with “fake news”, disinformation and false reports on the internet

Whether in social media feeds, messengers or podcasts – we are flooded with countless messages, reports and stories online every day. Sometimes it is not so easy to distinguish between truth and deception. Teaching children and young people how to recognize false information on the internet is a real challenge. This article offers practical advice on this and explains how you can talk to your child about it.

Fake news, disinformation and false reports – the difference

  • False reports are mistakes in news that happen unintentionally. Internet users can also inadvertently publish misinformation. They are often corrected later.
  • Disinformation means that false information is deliberately spread in order to manipulate and mislead people.
  • “Fake news” is a colloquial term for disinformation and refers to deliberately falsified news. It is also used politically to devalue unpopular opinions or traditional media and sow doubt.

Why is “fake news” dangerous?

Fake news spreads particularly quickly in uncertain times. We humans are already unsettled and even experts and politicians don’t have all the answers – such as during the coronavirus crisis or wars. “Fake news” deliberately spreads rumors or even hateful reports that are intended to stir up fears and deliberately deceive us. They often offer simple explanations and can give the feeling of security. But they are not true.

These fake news items are often so cleverly crafted that they appear to be legitimate news at first glance. People who believe “fake news” share it further, so that more and more people fall for it. The problem with this is that the more often such content is clicked on, the more often it is displayed – and the more people believe it to be true. This can be problematic, especially when it comes to political posts with an extremist or populist background or when conspiracy myths are spread.

Content that can unsettle or frighten younger children in particular is also problematic. Deep fake videos in particular look deceptively real. It is therefore important to understand that not all information on the Internet is true and to know the differences between disinformation, false reports and satire.

How you can check messages

Recognizing whether it is actually disinformation or false reports can be a tricky task. Therefore, it is helpful to follow clear steps to curb the spread of disinformation:

Source verification

Check where the message came from and who wrote it. Are the authors well-known and experts on the topic? Is it a reputable website?

Fact check

Try to verify the message with different sources. Ask yourself how up-to-date the information is and check where the figures and data mentioned come from as well as the context in which they were collected.

Checking the message form

Pay attention to the way the message is presented. Is the language serious and factual, or is emotional language and excessive capitalization used? Does the article contain catchwords such as “lying press” or similar provocative terms? Could the article be meant satirically?

Verify evidence

Make sure photos and videos match the message and are up-to-date. Pay attention to captions and whether they actually represent what is being described or are from another context.

Joint fact check

Discuss news and messages together as a family. Your child should understand that not everything on the internet can be sent via WhatsApp or comes from an AI chatbot has to be true. If you check messages together, it can gradually learn to distinguish true from false. Ask for your child’s opinion and share your own thoughts. This way, you and your child can be safer and better prepared to recognize and counteract false information on the Internet.

More tips

Here are some tips on where you can check messages and how you and your child can learn how to use them in a fun way:

Protection of minors online – The role of the German Association for Voluntary Self-Regulation of Digital Media Service Providers (FSM)

Children and young people are growing up in a digital world in which they come into contact with online media on a daily basis. Clear rules and effective protective measures are essential to enable them to use the internet safely. The German Association for Voluntary Self-Regulation of Digital Media Service Providers (FSM e.V.) plays a central role here. We explain how the FSM shapes youth media protection and why it is so important for parents.

Who is the FSM?

The FSM is a self-regulatory body recognized by the Commission for the Protection of Minors in the Media (KJM) in the area of youth media protection. It is committed to protecting children and young people from online content that is harmful to minors and supports digital media providers in the implementation of youth protection measures. It works closely with many other institutions in the field – in Germany and internationally.

Tasks of the FSM

The FSM pursues the goal of ensuring effective youth media protection in digital offerings. Its main tasks:

  • Complaints office for problematic content: Users can use the FSM complaints office to report online content that is prohibited by law or harmful to minors. This includes, for example, violent, pornographic or extremist content. The FSM examines each complaint individually and takes action in the event of violations – either by cooperating with the providers concerned or by forwarding them to the authorities. The report can be submitted via an online complaint form on the FSM website.
  • Self-regulation and age classification: As a recognized self-regulator under the Interstate Treaty on the Protection of Minors in the Media (JMStV), the FSM supports companies in making their content suitable for young people. This includes, for example, the age rating of content, the development of technical youth protection solutions (e.g. youth protection programs such as JusProg) and advice on legal requirements. Digital platforms and media providers that join the FSM benefit from the opportunity to have their own protection measures tested and certified by the FSM.
  • Media education and information: The FSM is committed to media education in order to inform parents, teachers and children about risks on the internet. It provides practical materials, organizes events and cooperates with initiatives such as klicksafe and fragFINN. One example is our Elternguide.online project, which offers special guides and tools for parents.

The FSM in the system of youth media protection

The FSM is part of the system of regulated self-regulation in Germany. It works closely with other self-regulatory bodies such as the USK (Entertainment Software Self-Regulation), the FSK (Voluntary Self-Regulation of the Film Industry) and the FSF (Voluntary Self-Regulation of Television). In this way, the self-regulatory bodies promote cooperation between companies, authorities and politicians for the effective protection of minors in the media.

Challenges in the digital protection of minors

The digital protection of minors is a dynamic field that constantly presents new challenges:

  • New technologies: The FSM has to deal with developments such as artificial intelligence (e.g. deep fakes) or new online platforms. New media phenomena require new approaches to the protection of minors.
  • Limits of self-regulation: The FSM reaches its limits when it comes to content on foreign servers. It works closely with international partners in the fight against online abuse.

Why is the FSM important for parents?

It is often difficult for parents to assess what content on the Internet is suitable for their children. The FSM offers support to ensure that youth media protection reaches families:

  • Parental control programs: These help parents to restrict access to unsuitable content.
  • Information services: Projects such as Elternguide.online offer practical and valuable tips on safe media use.
  • Complaint options: Parents can report problematic content directly.

More information is available directly on the FSM website: www.fsm.de

Coding for kids – learning to program is fun!

Apps, remote-controlled cars, vending machines – in our increasingly digital world, programming skills are a valuable skill. Age-appropriate apps and programs introduce children to coding in a playful way and encourage creativity, logical thinking and problem-solving skills.

Why is coding useful for children?

  • Creativity and problem solving: Children learn to turn ideas into digital projects.
  • Logical thinking: You understand how processes need to be structured.
  • Safe handling: Programming skills help to better understand digital technologies and use them responsibly.

Our recommendations

ScratchScratch is an image-oriented, visual programming language and an online platform developed by the MIT Media Lab especially for children and young people aged 8 to 16. Children can use it to learn programming step by step in a fun way. With a simple drag-and-drop interface, they can create their own animations, games and interactive stories. The software is extremely appealing and gives your child the opportunity to create their own worlds. There is also a large online community where your child can share coding projects and be inspired by others. There is also an app version that can be used offline.

ScratchJrFor younger children (aged 5+) there is ScratchJr, which offers simple visual programming for first coding experiences. The app allows your child to create their own interactive stories and games by stringing together graphical program blocks to move characters and create actions such as jumping, dancing and singing. You can customize the characters and add your own voices and sounds. ScratchJr is easy to use and has a child-friendly design.

OctoStudioOctoStudio is an intuitive, block-based programming language that allows users to create interactive animations and games directly on their smartphone or tablet. The app was developed by the Lifelong Kindergarten Group of the MIT Media Lab and makes it possible to take photos and sounds and bring them to life with programming blocks. The use of device sensors is particularly noteworthy: projects can be controlled interactively by shaking, tilting or jumping. OctoStudio is ad-free, contains no in-app purchases and does not collect any user data. The app is available in more than 20 languages, including German, and can be downloaded free of charge from the Google Play Store and the Apple App Store.

Programming with the mouseThis website is aimed at children aged 8 and over and teaches programming basics in a fun way, inspired by “Die Sendung mit der Maus”. The popular TV character from the show awakens an interest in coding and accompanies your child through the program. The web application uses Scratch as a basis, but does not allow you to publish your own projects. “Programming with the Mouse” focuses on entertaining games and activities to impart knowledge in an appealing way. The platform offers structured instructions that guide children step by step through the world of programming. Successfully solving tasks boosts children’s self-confidence and is fun. The website promotes creative learning and makes programming accessible to children.

Ronja’s robotRonja’s Robot is an app for iOS and Android, developed by the Kinder Forschen foundation. It introduces children aged 6 to 12 to programming and robotics in a playful way. The app consists of two clever games: “Roberta rast”, in which your child learns programming concepts, and “Speak like Roberta”, which teaches the computer language binary code (from 1 and 0). For more advanced children, the graphical programming language OPEN Roberta offers the opportunity to delve deeper into the world of programming. Creative thinking is encouraged and your child can come up with their own solutions to tricky challenges. Your child can earn badges and rewards in the game and create coding projects together with other children as a team.

Programming until it gets dark – what should parents bear in mind?

Your child may forget the time when programming. Set rules for screen time together with your child. Make sure your child socializes and spends time outdoors. There may also be occasional frustration when challenges arise. Support your child, encourage them – and learn something new yourself. There are also school and leisure activities where children can learn the programs. Use the fragFINN search engine for children to find offers in your area.

Virtual parents’ evening on 03.04.2025 from 5 to 6 pm (held in German)

Digital democracy: Discovering political topics online with children in a safe and age-appropriate way (held in German)

In recent months, political issues have repeatedly been in the spotlight – whether due to elections in the USA and Germany or conflicts and wars. Online election campaigns, exaggerated statements in social networks and heated discussions have characterized the internet. But how can children of primary school age find age-appropriate and trustworthy information on politics and current world events? How can you as parents help them to find their way through the digital news jungle?

In this virtual parents’ evening, we will give you practical tips on how you can help your children deal with political issues online. We will show how children’s search engines help children aged 6 to 12 to surf safely and find suitable news that they can understand. You will also learn how you can jointly recognize disinformation and manipulated content such as deep fakes.

Take the opportunity to be there live and ask your questions to our experts – we will be on hand to exchange ideas and provide valuable inspiration for everyday family life!

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Date: 03.04.2025 | Time: 5 to 6 pm

Speakers: Maria Wiesner and Udo Lihs (fragFINN)

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    Seitenstark – in search of inspiration

    Are you or your child looking for high-quality and child-friendly child-friendly online offers? Then Seitenstark just the right thing! The platform is a network of certified children’s sites that provide educationally valuable content. Your child can surf, discover and learn safely here.

    In a nutshell:

    • Network of over 60 children’s sites
    • Children and parents or teachers can get information and inspiration
    • High standards of quality and protection of children and young people from harmful media

    What is Seitenstark?

    Seitenstark.de is a children’s website that lists and presents a variety of child-friendly websites. The sites offer content on various topics. Whether nature and technology, music and film, art and culture or politics and religion – children will find lots of exciting content here and can learn new things in a fun way.

    Many of the pages presented are linked to the site strength-seal of approval. The seal stands for high-quality, ad-free and safe internet services that are specially tailored to the needs of children. Sites with this seal offer trustworthy, verified content and protect the privacy of young users.

    What fascinates children in particular?

    On Seitenstark going digital is easy and fun. In the Link-Clips places Seitenstark The mascot Starky accompanies the children as they surf the Internet and provides them with other topics in addition to the children’s pages. The mascot Starky accompanies the children while surfing and presents other topics in addition to the children’s pages, such as Children’s rights. In the category Join in! children get exciting ideas and tips for creating media themselves. Those who Games you get access to child-friendly game collections and entertaining analog and digital game tips. Under the tab Fit on the Internet the character Charlie provides important information about safety on the Internet. Your child will learn more about the Internet in general, about Fake news and data protection and answers to frequently asked questions.

    What does the provider say?

    The Seitenstark e. V. association forms the organizational basis of the open Seitenstark-network. As a non-profit organization and recognized sponsor of independent youth welfare, the association is committed to high-quality and safe children’s media. Its members come from the fields of children’s media, media education and educational work. All information about the association, the seal of approval and tips on media education can be found in the Area for parents and teachers.

    What should parents pay attention to?

    When you gradually release your child more independently into the world of the Internet, he or she should already have learned a few rules and have safe places to go to find offers suitable for children. Therefore Seitenstark a great opportunity.

    The website is divided into a children’s section and a section for parents and teachers. You can let your child surf alone in the children’s area with a clear conscience, which will give them self-confidence and help them develop their skills. Media competence promotes. However, you should always bear in mind that the discussed media usage times are adhered to and you remain in contact with your child.

    Make use of Seitenstark as a contact point for discovering new topics together and imparting knowledge in a playful way. With Seitenstark children can use the Internet safely and sensibly – a great opportunity for you as parents to accompany your child in their digital learning. And you can also find out more yourself on the site.

    Rules for media use in the family

    “Just one more round!” or “Leon can watch TV much longer!” – Many parents are familiar with phrases like these. But how much media time is actually okay? Which media is suitable for my child? And at what age does it make sense for them to have their own smartphone? Fixed rules can help to find answers to these questions. However, they can also lead to conflicts. We have a few tips and background information on setting media rules in the family.

    Why are rules important?

    Rules are not there to enforce the will of parents, but to provide structure and guidance. They help to promote your child’s media skills and reduce the risk of problems caused by inappropriate use of media. As parents, you have the responsibility to combine the fun of media with a conscious approach. You are often better at assessing dangers than your child.

    It is important that your child understands the rules and can follow them. It is best to develop the rules together with your child. This will make your child realize that their opinion counts and it will be easier for them to accept the rules. Explain to your child why certain rules are important and why they should be followed. If rules are not clearly formulated or are interpreted differently, your child will find it difficult to follow them. Another crucial point is that you as parents are role models – this means that you should follow the same rules yourself.

    How should rules be designed?

    Which rules make sense depends on the age of your child and on how you and your child generally deal with media. This is not the same in every family.

    The younger your child is, the more you should keep an eye on his or her media use. Young children need close supervision and should not spend too much time with media. Choose age-appropriate content, limit the duration of use and decide on suitable devices. Even if your child is still small, you can explain to them why certain content or times are chosen. Depending on their stage of development, children of kindergarten age can also be involved in simple decisions. From elementary school age, your child gets many new impressions and influences. They still need a lot of guidance, which is why clear, jointly developed rules are very important. You can now better talk to your child about content and let him or her have a say. This way, your child feels taken seriously and learns to take responsibility. From secondary school and adolescence onwards, you should trust your child to be more independent and support them in using media in an increasingly self-determined and self-regulated way. Young people usually approach digital media openly, but they are often not yet able to properly assess the risks. That’s why you are still important as a guide and contact person!

    The following applies to all age groups: media usage rules must be sensible and flexible.

    Setting rules together

    To help your child understand how to use media, it makes sense to draw up the rules together – for example in the form of a media usage contract. Such a contract makes the rules transparent and comprehensible for everyone. Exceptions can also be formulated. If your child can help shape the rules themselves, it will be easier for them to stick to them. Check regularly whether the rules still make sense or need to be adjusted if necessary.

    Just as important as media-related rules are “media-free” rules – such as not using smartphones during a family meal or conversation. Such rules promote interpersonal communication and strengthen the family bond.

    Media time and media-free time

    A frequent topic is the question: How much media time is healthy? When is it too much? The answer depends very much on the age and individual needs of your child. The rule of thumb is: the younger, the less!

    One approach to regulating media time in everyday life is the use of media vouchers. These can help children of primary school age and above to independently allocate a weekly budget of media time. This gives your child responsibility for their media use without you having to constantly intervene.

    It is important that your child has a varied daily routine, uses media in different ways, but also has media-free experiences.

    Media content and device selection

    Not only the use of media, but also the choice of content should be part of the family rules. Make sure that media content is age-appropriate and corresponds to your child’s interests. In addition to television and apps, media consumption also includes radio plays, books and music. It makes sense to include these in the rules as well.

    Take into account that the content of media use varies greatly, as do the motives and needs of use. A game for mere entertainment may be weighted differently than learning with media. Discuss qualitative differences with your child. Be sure to include age-appropriate content as well.

    The question of the right age for the first smartphone concerns many parents. If necessary, talk to the parents of your child’s friends and consider whether certain rules can apply to everyone.

    Security settings and technical support

    Another important topic is the security settings for devices and apps. Many smartphones and tablets now offer the option of controlling access to certain content and limiting its use. These should always be discussed with your child. Settings such as screen time limits, age ratings and app filters can help to control media use.

    However, these technical aids are no substitute for parental guidance. They should also not be used purely for control. Your child needs trust and the opportunity to gradually take responsibility for their own media use. Explanations from you and conversations about media make a significant contribution to your child learning how to use media competently.

    Rules may vary depending on the child’s age and stage of development. On the one hand, stay consistent, otherwise they will not serve their purpose. At the same time, if possible, do not use the rules as a punishment or reward.

    Cyberbullying

    Disputes are part of child development. Children and young people learn how to deal with conflicts and find solutions. However, digital media can lead to arguments getting worse. Cyberbullying is affecting more and more children and young people. This makes it all the more important to raise your child’s awareness of respectful online behavior and to help them deal with online conflicts. In this article, we explain what you can do as a parent.

    What is cyberbullying?

    Cyberbullying means that people are insulted, exposed or threatened online, for example via apps such as TikTok, Snapchat, WhatsApp or Instagram.

    There are different roles: the victims, the active bullies, but also the silent bystanders and assistants who join in. Many children and young people take on several of these roles, sometimes without realizing it. Cyberbullying can take many forms:

    • Insults or threats in messages or comments
    • Exclusion from groups or chats
    • Spreading rumors or private information
    • Embarrassing photos or videos shared without consent
    • Identity theft and fake profiles
    • Use of artificial intelligence (AI) to create fake images or videos, so-called deepfakes

    As digital content can be stored and redistributed, a single post can have long-term effects. Attackers can often hide behind their anonymity.

    Why does cyberbullying occur?

    There are many reasons why children and young people bully others:

    • Boredom or the desire to make a name for yourself
    • Peer pressure and the need to belong
    • Revenge or the feeling of having to defend yourself
    • Lack of awareness of the consequences
    • The feeling of being braver online than in real life

    New technologies such as deepfake software have exacerbated cyberbullying. Young people sometimes use them out of curiosity or to deliberately expose others.

    The consequences of cyberbullying

    Bullying has been around since before the invention of the internet. But whereas in the past a child could come home after school and switch off, today children and young people are constantly connected to each other. Conflicts from school continue in class chats or on social media platforms. This is why cyberbullying can have serious consequences. Children who are bullied online often feel helpless and abandoned. In the long term, it can lead to anxiety, sleep disorders, depressive moods or even suicidal thoughts. Statistics show that almost half of young people have already experienced cyberbullying. According to the JIM Study 2024, 11% of young people have experienced cyberbullying directly in the last month.

    What can parents do?

    When children and young people communicate with each other, there are always times when insults are used. This does not have to be bullying, but is often just a joke. They use it to test how far they can go. However, this limit is different for every child.

    Parents can do a lot to ensure that their child communicates respectfully and is safer online:

    • Have open conversations: Regularly ask what your child is doing on the Internet, who they are in contact with and what experiences they are having there.
    • Encourage empathy: Explain to your child that insults are also hurtful on the Internet and that there are limits.
    • Use safety functions: Use the parental control settings in devices and apps and explain to your child how they can block or report people.
    • Set limits: Younger children in particular should only be allowed to communicate online with a limited number of people. Set up the smartphone more securely together with your child and adjust the settings to your child’s level of development.
    • Take changes in behavior seriously: If your child withdraws, seems sad or tense, this may be a sign of cyberbullying.

    Good prevention starts early. Parents should talk to their children about how to use the internet competently before they become active on social media. For primary school children, there are programs such as the learning offer Genial digital run by the Deutsches Kinderhilfswerk, which teach media skills in a fun way. The cyberbullying first aid app from klicksafe helps young people to deal with conflicts online.

    Schools can also help by setting clear rules against (online) bullying and providing information. Parents can, for example, encourage teachers to integrate digital learning modules or videos from the Wake Up Initiative, including those from the FSM, into lessons.

    What should I do if my child is affected?

    If your child is affected by cyberbullying, you should remain calm and make it clear to them that it is not their fault. You can then take the following steps together:

    1. Preserve evidence: Take screenshots of the offending content (except for illegal content such as hardcore pornography).
    2. Report bullying on the platform: Social media apps have reporting functions to remove offensive content. Complaints offices can also be contacted.
    3. Talk to the school: If the bullying comes from classmates, the school can help.
    4. Seek external help: Many counseling platforms such as Nummer gegen Kummer or Juuuport offer anonymous counseling for children, young people and parents.
    5. Take legal action in an emergency: Threats, defamation or identity theft may be punishable by law. If necessary, a report can be made to the police. You can find help online, for example at the online police watchdogs and Hate Aid.

    Cyberbullying is a serious challenge for children and young people. However, parents can do a lot to empower their children, educate them and stand by them when problems arise. Make use of the support services, stay in contact with your child and advocate for a safe and respectful online world.

    Which games are suitable for my child? Making the right decision with educational recommendations

    Immerse yourself in game worlds, experience exciting adventures with your own avatar and compete with other players – many children and young people are fascinated by games. As a parent, you should give your child access to age-appropriate content. Online games in particular, with their opportunities for interaction and incentives to buy, present young players with challenges. But how do you keep track of the gaming market and find suitable games for your child?

    Educational age recommendations, independent game reviews and media awards can help you make informed decisions and select suitable content together with your child. In this article, we present some of the options.

    Spieleratgeber NRW – the portal for computer games

    The NRW games guide is a media education service from the Fachstelle für Jugendmedienkultur NRW, which supports parents with media education. The platform offers extensive information on over 2000 games. The games are tested by young people and given an educational age recommendation by experts. Parents can use filter functions to find suitable games for their children by genre, platform and age. The game descriptions and video clips provide insights into the content, risks and opportunities of the games and use additional descriptions to highlight the characteristics and skills that the game promotes (e.g. reading skills, frustration tolerance and logic).

    More info: https://www.elternguide.online/spieleratgeber-nrw/

    Internet-abc.de – Games tips for children

    Whether for computer, tablet, smartphone or console – internet-abc.de offers a collection of over 1000 games for children up to the age of 12. The Internet ABC experts award points for fun, operation and technical quality and make an age assessment. Children and parents can use the search mask to filter the games by game type, game device and age group. Each recommendation offers facts and pictures about the game as well as a summary of the content. Children can rate the games with stars and leave comments.

    More info: https://www.internet-abc.de/kinder/spiel-spass/spieletipps/

    Educational media prize – educationally valuable apps and games

    Anyone looking for high-quality and child-friendly digital content will find what they are looking for at the Educational Media Prize of the media education association SIN – Studio im Netz. Every year, a jury of children, young people and experts awards prizes to digital media offerings such as apps, games and websites that are particularly recommended for young people. The award-winning digital offerings are free of problematic content such as excessive violence. The focus is on media that not only entertain, but also convey educationally valuable content.

    More info: https://www.paedagogischer-medienpreis.de

    Educational games – Learning with games

    The website of the Digital Games Culture Foundation offers parents a collection of recommended games. The selection includes both serious games that specifically impart knowledge and commercial entertainment games with educational added value. The collection also includes programs that encourage children and young people to get creative and develop their own games. The offers can be filtered according to age groups, platforms and topics. For each game there is an educational classification according to time required, complexity, game content, opportunities and possible risks.

    More info: https://www.stiftung-digitale-spielekultur.de/paedagogische-spiele/

    TOMMI – Children’s Software Award

    Every year, the TOMMI Children’s Software Award recognizes particularly recommendable digital games and educational products for children. First, an expert jury reviews the nominated media products. Children’s juries then test and evaluate the games, apps and programs in 50 libraries in German-speaking countries. The TOMMI is published by the FEIBEL.DE office for children’s media in Berlin. Parents benefit from the independent assessments, as the award highlights games that are suitable for children and offer both fun and educational added value. The award ceremony takes place every year in the Timster program on KiKa program.

    More info: https://tommi.kids/kindersoftwarepreis/

    Gaming without limits – recommendations for accessible games

    The Gaming without Borders project tests digital games for accessibility and supports game developers in designing inclusive games. Young people with and without disabilities test the games and rate them in the categories of seeing, hearing, understanding and controlling. The service shows how digital games can be made accessible for everyone. The ComputerProjekt Köln e.V. is the specialist center for youth media culture in NRW. Parents can find valuable information here on how to select accessible games for their children in order to give them an unrestricted gaming experience.

    More info: https://www.gaming-ohne-grenzen.de/

    What parents should pay attention

    Beware of the risk of confusion! Distinguish between educational recommendations and age ratings in accordance with the German Youth Protection Act. Age ratings such as those issued by the Entertainment Software Self-Regulation Body(USK) are intended to protect children and young people from developmentally harmful content and interaction risks. They are not a recommendation and can say little about whether your child can handle the content well.

    Educational recommendations assess whether a game is understandable, interesting and development-promoting for a certain age group in terms of content and emotion. They show how a medium can accompany, support or positively stimulate children and young people in their development.

    Every child develops differently. Therefore, don’t just rely on recommendations, but actively accompany your child in their media use right from the start. Observe your child to understand how they react to different content. It is best to play together with your child or try out the game yourself beforehand. You can find more information on the topic of games in the family, for example which media rules are important, in this parents’ guide article: https://www.elternguide.online/games-games-games/

    Extremism, populism and disinformation online

    The annual Safer Internet Day, which is coordinated in Germany by the EU initiative klicksafe, will take place on February 11, 2025. Under the motto “No likes for lies! Recognize extremism, populism and deepfakes online”, children and young people are to be encouraged to deal critically with online content. On Elternguide.online we answer the most important questions on this topic.

    What is disinformation?

    Disinformation refers to the deliberate dissemination of false or misleading information with the aim of deceiving or manipulating people. The aim is to deliberately create a certain opinion or mood, for example against certain groups of people or political decisions. We explain everything about this topic in the article Fake news, conspiracies and disinformation – what does it actually mean? The text False information on the internet explains the background in plain language.

    What is the effect of “fake news”?

    “Fake news” is invented or distorted news that relies on strong emotions to attract attention and spread quickly. They can distort public opinion and promote false beliefs. You can find out more about this in our parents’ guide article Fake news – dealing with disinformation and false reports on the internet.

    How do deepfakes work?

    Deepfakes are videos or audios that have been faked with the help of artificial intelligence. They look real even though they are not. People are shown as if they were saying or doing things that never actually happened. Deepfakes can be used to spread false information or make someone look bad. Read the article Deep fakes – deceptively real fakes to find out what you can watch out for as a parent.

    What is behind conspiracy myths?

    Simple answers to difficult questions – conspiracy narratives are often behind this. These complex narratives explain events or situations with secret plans or powers. Such myths can quickly spread online, fuel mistrust of official bodies and lead to unreasonable behavior. You can find out more about this in our article Conspiracy myths on the internet.

    How does extremism spread online?

    Whether on social media, messengers or in online games – children and young people can come across extremist propaganda anywhere online. Extremist groups use the internet to spread their ideologies and recruit new followers. They often use manipulative content and misleading disinformation to achieve their goals. Our article Extremism online explains more about the background and how you can protect your child.

    How do I recognize prohibited symbols online?

    Some symbols, such as the swastika, are prohibited due to their association with unconstitutional organizations or ideologies. The dissemination of such symbols can contribute to the spread of extremist views and have consequences under criminal law. Our article Prohibited symbols on the internet sheds light on the dangers for children and where parents can get information.

    What does Dark Social mean?

    The term dark social refers to the dissemination of content via private channels such as messenger services or emails that are not publicly visible. Such distribution channels make it more difficult to track disinformation and can increase its reach. If you would like to find out more, read the article Dark Social – the dark side of the internet.

    What communication risks are there on the Internet?

    Chatting, posting, liking – online communication is an important part of children and young people’s media use. However, it is associated with a number of challenges. Contact with strangers harbors risks such as hate speech, cybergrooming or sextortion. Conflicts are also possible among friends, for example through cyberbullying. Problems can arise in gaming through anonymous communication and trash talk. In our article, we explain how your family can deal with communication risks safely and confidently.

    What parents should pay attention

    The ability to connect with others online and develop their own opinions is an important part of children and young people’s development. However, during the orientation phase, they can be susceptible to easy solutions and radical views from extremists. Keep talking to your child about their media use, keep an open mind and listen. Explain to your child why they should not trust all content on the internet. Show them how to critically question and check information and give your child access to age-appropriate news formats. There are numerous online resources and tools that can help to recognize disinformation and deal with communication risks. klicksafe, for example, offers materials and explanatory videos that are specially designed for young people.

    Deep fakes – deceptively genuine counterfeits

    The Internet is full of photos and videos. Images are often seen as proof of the truth of a report. However, photos and videos can also be manipulated or even faked. Deep fakes are just such counterfeits. They lead to the fact that disinformation can be spread even better, because they look very convincing.

    What is it all about?

    Thanks to artificial intelligence, sound or video recordings can be falsified or even completely recreated. Developers of deep fakes can, for example, put any statement in a person’s mouth or make them do things that they did not do in real life. The software analyzes recordings of a person and “learns” their facial expressions and gestures. After that, any sentences can be spoken and the recording manipulated to make it look as if the person said it themselves.

    The three most common forms of deep fakes:

    • Face swapping: Here, a person’s face is placed on another body.
    • Voice cloning: Here, words are put into a person’s mouth.
    • Body Puppetry: Here, a person’s body movements are digitally imitated.

    Such software can now be downloaded free of charge from the Internet. There are even relatively easy-to-use apps so that almost anyone can create and distribute deep fakes. As technology is constantly improving, counterfeits are becoming increasingly difficult to detect.

    What fascinates young people about it?

    Many young people encounter deep fakes in the form of humorous clips or parodies. If they fall for funny deep fakes, this is harmless in many cases. If the trick is explained afterwards, as in the video by a famous German YouTuber, it can even be an educational experience.

    It becomes problematic when young people allow themselves to be manipulated by deep fakes or are targeted themselves. In other words, when a deep fake is created that exposes them. This can put a heavy burden on those affected and lead to serious consequences.

    What can be problematic?

    Fake videos are dangerous because they look so convincing. Children and young people in particular must first learn to question content critically.

    • Disinformation: Fake videos can be used to spread fake news and influence (political) opinions. They can spread hatred and incitement.
    • Damage to reputation: Individuals can become involved in scandals through manipulated content. This can affect members of the public as well as private individuals.
    • Extortion and fraud: Real-time deep fakes allow fraudsters to pretend to be someone else in video conferences or phone calls in order to steal money or sensitive information.

    Although the use of third-party images is generally regulated by the right to one’s own image, deep fakes have long been a legal gray area. The Federal Council has been dealing with the issue since July 2024. The new law on the “violation of personal rights through digital falsification” provides for penalties of up to two years’ imprisonment, and up to five years in serious cases. The German government is also planning programs to improve the detection and regulation of deep fakes.

    What parents should pay attention

    Deep fakes are a rapidly growing phenomenon. While it’s not always easy to understand the technical details, it’s important that you talk to your child about these issues. Here are a few tips:

    • Open conversation: Show an interest in your child’s media consumption and create an atmosphere of trust so that they can turn to you if they have problems.
    • Responsible use: If your child wants to try out deep-fake apps, explain the ethical boundaries to them and discuss the legal consequences.
    • Critical handling: Show your child how to check whether it is a deep fake. Offer assistance with this:

    Conspiracy myths on the net

    Has your child heard about secret world conspiracies in a TikTok video or received a chain letter with strange claims from friends? Such situations are not uncommon. Conspiracy myths spread rapidly on social networks in particular and can have a lasting impact on young people’s world view.

    What it’s about

    Conspiracy narratives and fake news are similar because they contain information that is not true. However, conspiracy myths are more complex. They assume that everything – positive and negative events – is planned in order to achieve a specific goal. It is claimed that a small group of malicious actors are deliberately keeping the truth secret in order to advance their own interests.

    Conspiracy myths have always existed. Especially in the case of significant or shocking events, they offer seemingly simple explanations for complicated relationships. It is often claimed that a secret group is controlling the fate of the world or spreading false facts in order to gain an advantage. Especially in uncertain and confusing times, many people fall back on such seemingly simple explanations.

    How do myths spread online?

    On the internet and via social networks, such stories spread particularly quickly and widely. When your child starts to take an interest in world events – usually in adolescence – and is increasingly independent on the internet, sooner or later they will come across conspiracy myths. This can happen via videos from influencers, posts on social media platforms or chain letters on WhatsApp.

    TikTok thrives on short, captivating videos. The algorithm primarily shows content that matches users’ preferences. This quickly creates a spiral: once you watch or like a video with conspiracy myths, you will be presented with more such content. This makes the myths more present and credible for young people than they actually are.

    Due to its lack of content control, Telegram provides a breeding ground for extreme opinions and myths. As there is no moderation or fact-checking, such content can be spread unhindered.

    Platforms such as X (formerly Twitter) also play a role. Although it is less popular with young people, the lack of moderation there enables the rapid spread of conspiracy myths and radical views. Content from X can be disseminated via other networks, for example as memes, and thus also reach young people.

    What fascinates young people about it?

    Wars, assassinations or the outbreak of a worldwide pandemic are difficult to comprehend – for children and young people as well as for adults. Young people are just beginning to find their own identity and place in the world. They do not yet know exactly who they want to be and are looking for orientation. Conspiracy myths can fulfill important needs in this phase:

    • Simple answers: Complex topics such as pandemics or wars are made understandable.
    • Feeling of control: Knowing “who is to blame” gives a feeling of security.
    • Meaning and belonging: Being part of a “knowing” group gives young people the feeling of being special and belonging.
    • Identification and cohesion: Conspiracy narratives usually work according to the principle of “good versus evil”. The outward demarcation provides a sense of connectedness within the group.

    What can be problematic?

    Conspiracy stories can be entertaining, which is why they are often used in various media: the mystery of the Bermuda Triangle, aliens living among us, the idea of the Earth as a disk – such thought experiments can be interesting for children and young people and awaken their creativity.

    But even if some myths seem harmless, they harbor risks:

    • Radicalization: They can make young people more susceptible to extremist ideas.
    • Isolation: The separation from other opinions can lead to conflicts in the social environment.
    • Lack of fact-checking: Young people may take information on faith without questioning it.
    • Emotional stress: Threatening scenarios can fuel fears and undermine trust in institutions.

    What parents should pay attention

    Talk to your child about myths and help them to categorize and question them. Take your child seriously, even if they begin to engage intensively with conspiracy myths, accept parts of them as truth or exchange ideas with followers in communities. If you dismiss their interest with statements such as “It’s all just crazy conspiracy myths”, your child may distance themselves from you – and then look for like-minded people online. Instead of confronting your child with counter-arguments, you should ask critical questions together: Who is saying this? What motives could the storyteller have for spreading this story? Are there things that contradict each other? Are the sources trustworthy? Are there similar patterns in other conspiracy myths?

    A critical approach to information is the most important tool against conspiracy myths. Show your child how to check the veracity of a source and provide access to reputable and age-appropriate news sources. You can also research the background and sources of the story together, as well as the arguments of the ‘other side’.

    This can help:

    News and information made for children

    Conspiracy myths explained

    • For children: SRF Kids
    • For young people: funk
    • Material tip: Track down conspiracy myths with hidden object pictures(klicksafe)

    Websites where you can check the truthfulness of news items

    Information on elections and politics for children and young people

    The election to the German Bundestag will take place on February 23, 2025. The topic of elections raises questions for many young people. Even children are often interested in political issues. However, voting systems in particular are a complex topic that is difficult to understand even for many adults. We have compiled a selection of high-quality online services that provide children and young people with age-appropriate answers to their questions about elections and politics.

    Information pages for children

    Kuppelkucker – the Bundestag explained for children

    Kuppelkucker is the children’s website of the German Bundestag. Current news from the Bundestag for children aged 5 to 12 is published here twice a week. Explanations of terms and institutions of the German government can be found in the lexicon. Quizzes such as the election quiz, explanatory videos and audio clips such as this one on the Bundestag elections offer an interactive experience of the site.

    logo! – Children’s news

    logo!, the children’s news program on ZDF, also devotes some of its reports to the topic of elections and politics. An overview page explains various institutions in Germany, explains important terms and introduces individual parties. logo! also offers articles about the 2025 federal election. logo! is aimed at children between the ages of 8 and 12.

    SWR Kindernetz – Knowledge portal for children

    Südwestrundfunk regularly publishes child-friendly video and audio contributions on the SWR Kindernetz portal, supplemented by short knowledge articles. Here you can find some contributions on political topics such as the Bundestag elections or the Basic Law. Children can playfully test their knowledge in an election quiz.

    Sendung mit der Maus – the popular knowledge program

    Die Sendung mit der Maus has set up a special page on the subject of democracy and elections, on which video contributions for children aged 5 and over are available on topics such as postal voting, the Reichstag and laws.

    Checker Welt – reports suitable for children

    Presenter Checker Tobi from Checker Welt deals with the topic of democracy and the importance of elections in the report Democracy Check. The program is aimed at an audience aged 6 and over.

    What is What – Non-fiction books for children

    The well-known Was ist Was book series is aimed at children aged 8 and over. In addition to the non-fiction book Demokratie – deine Stimme zählt (Democracy – your vote counts), a brochure on democracy and elections in the typical Was ist Was style is available for free download on the website.

    Children’s podcasts

    Geolino Spezial is a knowledge podcast for children in which presenter Ivy goes on a journey of discovery around the world. Episode 81 is all about elections. You can listen to all podcast episodes on this Geolino website.

    “How is a law made? What tasks do ministers have? How important are children’s rights?” – These are the questions addressed in the children’s podcast Ohrka. Here, child reporters interview politicians and get to the bottom of questions about democracy.

    Information pages for young people

    Hanisauland – political education for young people

    The Hanisauland portal communicates political and social issues to children between the ages of 8 and 14 in a playful way. Knowledge articles and a lexicon explain important terms and topics. Children can post their own questions under the articles. The portal highlights special topics such as elections and the upcoming Bundestag elections. Children and young people can test what they have learned in the quiz on the topic of elections.

    Federal Agency for Civic Education – Politics, History, International Affairs

    The knowledge section of the Federal Agency for Civic Education provides answers to the most important questions about democracy and elections in the form of articles and booklets. A special overview page has been put together for the 2025 Bundestag elections, including the Wahl-O-Mat.

    U18.org – Portal for first-time voters

    U18.org is all about young issues in politics, youth elections, events and political education. Anyone under the age of 18 who wants to take part in the U18 election can find out more here on the website.

    Youth portal – mitmischen.de – network and inform

    The German Bundestag’s mitmischen.de portal encourages young people to become politically or journalistically active themselves.

    Political education on social media

    Social media channels for political education make it easy and entertaining to understand what is currently being discussed in politics and society. The politikverstehen_ channel on Instagram conveys knowledge about domestic and foreign policy. nini_erklaert_politik covers current political events in a humorous, simple and factual way on her Instagram account and her TikTok channel. On YouTube, influencers like LeFloid and networks like funk tackle social issues with factual accuracy and humor. DIE DA OBEN! by funk offers political content about the Bundestag on all social media channels.

    What parents should pay attention

    When it comes to political education, parents are an important role model for children. Emphasize the importance of elections and encourage your child to stand up for values such as democracy and social justice. Give your child access to age-appropriate news and information sites and search engines and talk to them about political issues. Because by gaining a certain basic understanding of democracy and elections, your child learns why their own opinion and vote are important. Do not force your child to do this, but build on their existing interest.

    In connection with elections and democracy, disinformation and fake news are circulating on the internet and on social media platforms. Talk to your child about fake news online and explain to them how they can check news and content. HanisauLand or Team Timster offer programs for children and young people to educate them about fake news and the like.

    ChatGPT

    “Just ask a chatbot!” – This could soon be the motto when it comes to searching for information or answering questions. ChatGPT, an AI-based chatbot, is becoming increasingly popular and is also being used more and more by children and young people. We provide an insight into the tool.

    In a nutshell:

    • Artificial intelligence (AI): language model that has been trained on large volumes of text
    • Functions: Gives answers, writes texts, translates languages, helps with creative tasks, assists with organization and can be integrated into messaging services such as WhatsApp.
    • Developer: OpenAI
    • Registration: limited use without registration, free basic version with e-mail address and mobile phone number, paid version offers access to GPT-4, faster responses and Internet access.
    • Basic version free of charge
    • Age rating: According to the terms and conditions from 13 years of age, between 13 and 18 years of age use is only permitted with the consent of a parent or legal guardian. No official age check

    What is ChatGPT?

    ChatGPT is a computer program that was developed using artificial intelligence (AI) to answer questions and create texts. It is based on huge amounts of data from various sources, such as books, news and conversations. Users can chat directly with the program – and in amazingly natural language. It can also be integrated into apps such as WhatsApp, making it even easier and more flexible to use.

    The paid version of ChatGPT can also retrieve up-to-date information from the Internet. This function is particularly useful for answering questions about current events or trends. In the basic version, however, ChatGPT only has knowledge up to 2021, which can lead to outdated information.

    A sample conversation

    Question: Hey ChatGPT, I’m planning a birthday for my son. Can you help me?

    ChatGPT: Sure! How old will your son be and what does he particularly like? Then we can collect ideas for games, decorations or food.

    Question: He is nine and loves dinosaurs. Do you have any suggestions?

    ChatGPT: How about a dinosaur treasure hunt in the garden? You can hide little dinosaur figures and draw a map. Dino-shaped cookies or muffins would also be a nice idea. Would you like me to find you a recipe?

    Linus: Good idea! Can you give me any tips for invitations?

    ChatGPT: Sure! You could make invitations in the shape of dinosaur tracks. On each track you write the details of the party and the kids can see it as a little adventure. Would you like me to make you a template?

    What fascinates children and young people about it?

    ChatGPT is easily accessible, fast and versatile. It can write creative texts, answer complex questions and communicate in different languages. For many, it feels like they are writing to a real person. The ability to write creative texts, answer complex questions and communicate in different languages inspires many. ChatGPT can also promote creativity and language comprehension.

    Children and young people use ChatGPT for example for:

    • Find answers: Be it for school, a hobby or general curiosity.
    • Have texts written: From poems to synopses.
    • Conversation: Write with a virtual conversation partner.
    • Learning languages: translating texts or explaining difficult terms.
    • Creative projects: Develop ideas for stories or games.
    • Organization: Create planning tasks or to-do lists.

    What can be problematic?

    • Inappropriate content: Despite filtering, children and young people may receive inappropriate or problematic content.
    • Incorrect information: Chatbots can give incorrect or inaccurate answers.
    • Data protection: Personal data can be at risk, especially when used in apps such as WhatsApp.
    • Outdated knowledge: In the basic version, the knowledge level is limited to 2021, which can lead to problems with current topics.
    • No substitute for real interaction: ChatGPT cannot provide emotional support.
    • Dependence: Children can rely too heavily on ChatGPT and neglect critical thinking.

    What does the provider think?

    According to OpenAI, children and young people should be protected as follows:

    • Filtering: ChatGPT avoids inappropriate, vulgar or offensive content.
    • Transparency: Answers often contain information on how information can be verified.
    • Education: OpenAI encourages critical use.

    The provider also points out that users should be careful not to share personal data. It also points out that functions such as integration into apps should be used with caution.

    What should parents pay attention to?

    Explain to your child that not everything the chat program says is true or correct. ChatGPT has been trained with texts, and therefore only knows what it has seen. It can make mistakes. Encourage your child to think critically by encouraging them to question ChatGPT’s answers. Make sure your child verifies the information they receive with other sources. It’s best to try this out together and explain to him how to deal with disinformation.

    The chatbot can assist with school-related tasks. For example, he can describe something in simple words. ChatGPT should not do homework for your child. Explain to your child that ChatGPT is a tool and not a perfect source. ChatGPT cannot think.

    Stay in conversation with your child and educate them about dangerous content online. The chatbot has also been trained with texts that may be inappropriate for your child. Work out boundaries and rules for use together.

    Explain to your child that they have a right to security and data protection. You and your child should not submit any personal information. Encourage your child to let you know if there is a problem. Make sure your child understands how to protect his or her privacy.

    Age rating versus age recommendation – what’s the difference?

    Video or game night? But which movies, series or computer games are suitable for the whole family? What does the age rating on the cover actually mean? Age ratings protect against questionable content, but are not age recommendations. This article explains the differences and shows how parents can make good decisions for their children.

    What is an age rating?

    In Germany, there is a system for assessing whether media could be problematic or harmful for a young audience: Age rating or age labeling. It is carried out by various institutions:

    • The FSK (Voluntary Self-Regulation Body of the Film Industry) checks films and categorizes them as “from 0”, “from 6”, “from 12”, “from 16” or “from 18”.
    • The USK (Entertainment Software Self-Regulation Body) controls computer and video games with the same age ratings. For computer games, there is also the Europe-wide PEGI system(Pan-European Game Information), which assigns similar age ratings but is based on other ratings. Important for parents: USK age ratings are legally binding, PEGI ratings are more of a guide.
    • The FSF (Freiwillige Selbstkontrolle Fernsehen) checks TV content and TV-like content on the internet. The age ratings are visible on streaming platforms and are linked to specific broadcast times on television.

    All of these checks look at whether media content contains violence, sexuality, drug use or discrimination or is particularly frightening. The more such content, the higher the age rating. After the check, the content is given the colorful stickers with the age information on them that are widely known. If a film or game is not approved for a certain age, this means, for example, that it is blocked by youth protection filters or may only be shown on television from a certain time. In cinemas, the age of visitors is checked.

    Media content is checked to see whether it could impair the development of children and young people. The aim of age ratings is to protect young adolescents from traumatizing or frightening content. There is no pedagogical assessment behind it: The content is not checked to see whether it is interesting or recommendable for young users!

    What is an age recommendation?

    A recommendation, on the other hand, is nothing more than a ‘good tip’. We get recommendations from friends and neighbors, from the radio – or from educators who check media offerings to see whether they are appealing to children, easy to understand and valuable in terms of content.

    As anyone can make a recommendation, it is important to question whether it is well-founded and credible. In the case of private recommendations, it helps to assess the person. In the case of articles or websites, you should know and question the authors. Good sources include:

    • FLIMMO: A parents’ guide in which media educators review films and TV shows and explain to parents why they are suitable for children.
    • Kinderfilmwelt: Gives parents orientation for age-appropriate children’s movies.
    • Spieleratgeber NRW: Recommends computer games that can be used without hesitation.

    How do parents make good decisions?

    The age rating protects against questionable content, but it is not a recommendation. Recommendations, on the other hand, can be made by anyone with an interest in media – but the criteria for this are often unclear. A combination of different sources of information is therefore important.

    If parents adhere to age ratings, they can avoid frightening or scary content. In addition, recommendations from reputable sources increase the hit rate for a good media offer enormously.

    Ideally, parents should also see for themselves: watch the movie beforehand, find out about the game on YouTube or even try it out for yourself. After all, you know your child best and know what they like, what is too much for them or what they are afraid of.

    And above all: keep the conversation going! Talk to your child about their media experiences. Listen and show interest in the movies or games they love – but also in the ones they don’t like.

    And if you’ve chosen the wrong movie – no problem! There’s always the spontaneous popcorn evening on the sofa.

    Too old for children’s sites – too young for adult offerings

    Too old for the children’s program, but still too young for the social media world? There is a time when your child doesn’t really know his place. It’s somewhere between childhood and adolescence. This affects many of the so-called “pre-teens”, the approximately 9-12 year olds. They are in a transition phase, which is also reflected in their media usage.

    For younger children, there are many age-appropriate offerings such as children’s apps, radio plays and children’s programs. As children get older, they are often no longer so interested in these – and turn directly to the adult world of media. The jump is quite big and the offer can still partly overwhelm your child.

    An important developmental phase for your child

    At the onset of puberty, your child is on the cusp of becoming an adolescent. In some things it still behaves childlike, in others it already wants to separate itself from you. It is increasingly oriented to elders and to people, trends and ideas outside the family. As a result, there is less and less interest in children’s media.

    During this phase, many children get their first smartphone and immerse themselves more and more independently in the world of online media. They have their first experiences in online games and on social media platforms. They follow stars such as influencers and streamers, interact with other users and develop their own identity. Pre-teens often lack an understanding of how to handle their own data or challenges such as communication risks online.

    What you should pay attention to as a parent

    Whether your child still wants to watch children’s programs or is already interested in computer games, social media or TV shows for older children – support your child according to their stage of development and give them the time they need.

    Gradually, you should relinquish control and support your child in being able to use media independently, safely and responsibly. Although your child has already gained some experience, he or she will still approach many things with an open mind, which means that they can easily come into contact with content that is harmful to minors online. Your child’s curiosity and desire to increasingly set themselves apart from adults will also lead them to seek out provocative content. Nevertheless, as parents, you still have an important role to play in providing guidance during the transition phase. Always talk to your child and ask about their media experiences.

    Offers for the transition phase

    Finding offers for pre-teens is not that easy and not every child will be interested. For computer games and films, there are age ratings from the Voluntary Self-Regulation Body. They indicate whether the content is unproblematic for development from a certain age. If you take a closer look, there are media offerings tailored to children in the transition phase both in traditional media and online.

    Here are a few recommendations:

    • Films, series and video clips: Our article on educational film recommendations presents various film portals. One example is Flimmothe program guide for parents. Here you will also find educational assessments of popular channels on YouTube, TikTok and Instagram.
    • Games: The NRW games guide has taken a close look at many computer games and game apps and rated them pedagogically. You can search for suitable games for your child here.
    • Podcasts: Whether audio stories or cultural talk – podcasts are very much in vogue. In two articles, we present recommended podcasts for children and young people.
    • Search engines: In the article Search engines for children and young people, we present children’s search engines such as fragFINN for example. We explain how children can use adult search engines safely with the help of parental control filters.
    • Info platforms: Hanisauland actively and playfully introduces children and young people to politics. Handysektor deals with young people’s media issues and addresses them directly in clips and articles. Juuuport informs young users about online risks and offers free digital advice.
    • Online communities: Knipsclub is a photo community that offers a safe introduction to the world of social media. On kindersache registered users can contribute their own videos, jokes and stories.

    You should also allow your child to take advantage of offerings that are not specifically for children. Find out about programs and content in advance. When you watch a movie, play a game or surf the Internet together as a family, your child has the opportunity to ask questions and you can see how he or she copes with certain content.

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